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On days like today I like to take a moment to give a massive shout out to the outstanding efforts all the Dads out there put in. I use the term Dad very loosely, cos in my opinion, a Dad is a role model, some one you can depend on, someone who oozes love. To be a Dad does not mean you have to have a set of testicles, it doesn’t mean you have to be blood related, it means you are the person who stepped up and offered yourself to someone who needed you. The mums who are doing it alone and being theRead More →

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A few weeks back I lost myself. I was at the point of my very first legitimate nervous break down. Something small but consistent got the better of me, and I let it bring me to a grinding halt. I lost my marbles so to speak, you know how Ludacris had so many hoes in different area codes?? I’m pretty sure each one of them bitches had a marble of mine stuffed down their tiny tank tops, and each one was working randomly allocated street corners. I was really surprised at myself, I’ve never let someone or something effect me so intensely-ever. These little, someRead More →

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🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️OWNERSHIP & ACCOUNTABILITY Having to front up to something our not proud of is just like holding in a fart, there’s so much pressure and uncomfortableness until you let it out and feel instant relief -although there is a high possibility of judgement and/or utter embarrassment, we must stick to the motto ‘better out than in’ It may stink for a bit but the air will clear eventually. No one likes to admit defeat, nor fess up to a mistake but passing blame or keeping it from who needs to know is no good for our health and just bad juju. I hate when IRead More →

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💨 CHANGE I embrace change like I’d embrace a cup of cold sick. I don’t handle it well but unfortunately for me sometimes it’s inevitable. We get taught at an early age that change will happen wether we like it or not, one minute we are frolicking free and then puberty jumps it’s sneaky ass on us. Girls get them pups slapped straight on their chests, and as for the ‘monthly cycle’ well that can suck a dick. Boys get impromptu visits from the sergeant standing at attention and their voices go up and down as much as a prostitutes knickers 🤦🏽‍♀️ You could beRead More →

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Don’t let people mistake your kindness for weakness…ever. We all know the motto, be kind to unkind people. Help those who need help. Put the shoe on the other foot and walk the footsteps of someone else to envisage their situation. However, learn to recognise the signs of when you are being taken advantage of rather than depended upon. Learn to recognise the difference between genuine need, and being a convenience. Learn to open yours eyes and decide when it’s time to ask “are you ok?” And when it’s time to say “you can do this on your own” Majority of us try our bestRead More →

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You could b thinking I’m talking about money , nah… That’s made to be spent, bills, kids , house, taxes, debt, holidays, online shopping whatever your heart desires. Me personally I have f**k all of it so most of these apply to me 😜 We all want the nice car, the new tv, the holiday and the bigger house. I’m talking about time. On the important stuff, like the off spring. Don’t be that mum, dad, grandparent that misses out by being ‘too busy’. Key word ….’Prioritise’ I’m no model parent that’s for sure, I feed my kids way too much noodles and pies andRead More →